i feel like i got a bit sidetracked this year but i still wanna work on being as kind as i possibly can.

cause it SO easy to hate, even if it just seems harmless or when we think a person deserves it cause they were mean too. like no. i wanna be michelle obama. when they go low, we go high. when people are mean to me i want to throw nothing but kindness at them. not because i’m being naive or i can’t defend myself, but because replying with any kind of hatred is only gonna breed more hatred in that person. 

i find that people who went through a lot of shit and have a low self esteem and somehow became confident but DIDN’T ever get there by thinking less of others to make themselves feel better, even if they just think it in their minds, and are just kind to everyone in their mind and in the real world, are the most freaking badass people in the world and i want to become that strong and brave. like i get that moment in live action cinderella where cinderella goes i forgive you @ her stepmother and everyone was like wow that was so brave. CAUSE YES HOLY SHIT THAT WAS THE MOST BADASS AND BRAVE THING EVER AND I WANNA BE BADASS CINDERELLA.

wow i just want to be so freaking kind. cause you need to be freaking badass to be really kind. cause its so easy to hate.